Perhaps there is a reason why you didn't get pregnant

The more I hear about Jon & Kate getting a divorce and the oldest mother giving birth to twins and dying less than 3 years later the more infuriated I become.

You know, these 3 adults are the perfect example of why we shouldn't mess with the higher power's plan/decisions.

If Jon & Kate couldn't get pregnant on their own, perhaps they shouldn't have messed with nature and gotten IVF. If they hadn't messed with nature then there wouldn't be 8 heartbroken children under the age of 10 who are going to go through the rest of their lives most likely blaming themselves for the failure of their parents' marriage as well as have many other people blame them as well. If they had just left well enough alone, they could have gotten divorced without the BS that they are now putting on their children. The situation with this family is so unhealthy it is despicable and stomach turning.

Then we have the woman who had IVF at 65 and gave birth to twins at age 66, making her at the time the oldest woman to ever give birth. Less than 3 years later she dies of cancer. There is a reason women aren't able to get pregnant after a certain point/age in life...it's because they aren't going to live long enough to impact the children's lives!! 65 is retirement age not giving baby age!!

To me, it's another perfect example of leaving well enough alone! the higher power/universal plan is there for a reason - people are just generally dumb!! At best those twins would have had her around until they were 20. Certainly wouldn't have seen them get through college or marriage or have their own children unless they were too young to have them!

People who do IVF to me are very selfish. This old woman wanted more kids. That was her want. Now those toddlers are left to people who weren't expecting to raise 2 kids and possibly didn't want them. How inconsiderate and selfish is it that this woman brings these kids into her life at a time when she had little life left. I realize that she didn't know she only had 3 years left, but still, 2o isn't enough either.

Same thing with Jon & Kate. To me, they are entirely too selfish. They wanted kids, but couldn't have them. Take it as a sign folks. There's probably a bigger reason why you can't have kids! Now look at these kids...mom and dad are going to want to have their own lives now...look at Jon - less than 2 weeks after his wife files for divorce, he is parading around a new girlfriend who is closer in age to his kids than to him, and it will only get worse as the years go by. I'm sure that Kate isn't any different. They got more than they bargained for with twins and sextuplets and so they want out. Too bad it's at the expense of the kids lives. The adults can have their own lives and start over again, but these kids won't even have a chance to start without being totally fucked up.

They were so selfish that they coudn't think straight.

I'm not even going to get into the Octo-mom saga. I'm foul enough.

I realize that this blog comes across as harsh, but I'm hoping that it will maybe make one person stop to think that there may be a bigger, better reason for them to not go the route of IVF if they are unable to have children naturally. It's probably in your best interest and more importantly, in the best interest of the child you think you want to bring into your world if you go with nature's way.



I hope that it makes people look