Sunday, May 08, 2011

disappointment

I don't think there is a more difficult emotion to overcome than disappointment. I don't find it particularly difficult to get over disappointment in something. I find it difficult to overcome disappointment in someONE. I also find it difficult to overcome disappointment in myself, but that's for another blog.

I can forgive disappointing circumstances and issues fairly easily. I'll be bummed, sure! But, if the disappointing factor is not due to one particular thing or person, then no big deal.

I do find it difficult to forgive someone if they are the sole or particular reason for disappointment or disappointing circumstances that could have been prevented.

Today, I am disappointed in a person and their apparent choices regarding a situation and person and are trying to hold them back. How do I get over that?! I have caught this person in multiple lies in the past 2 weeks and now more lies to cover them. I've confronted the person about the lies and the lies continue. So, what to do or say? I really don't know. Do I just leave it be or push it? Do I just ignore the person entirely or go on as if nothing has happened.

Not sure how to proceed or if I proceed with this person or not. We have personal and business dealings togther and this will be tough to overcome. Any ideas will be reviewed.